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Thursday, January 24, 2013

Responding to the Offensive



I came across this post this morning, as I was scrolling through my Facebook, and my immediate response was...

OUCH.   
Super offensive.


Where do they get off?  



Response from the masses:

And then I watched as 4 hours passed, over 3,000 people hit 'like', and hundreds were writing comments.  They seemed almost eager to bash, vent, and give their 2 cents.  There were valid points being made, and foolish ones being shouted.


Too many people make surface judgments on religion without ever risking a thorough examination, or subjecting themselves to spiritual experiences.  They criticize from the outside, in.  To those individuals, I plead for you to take another/better look.  Discover all the good that does get done in the name of religion.  I challenge you to read the Holy Books, holy writings, study the heritages of our ancestors, read about the lives of all the prophets, put all the puzzle pieces together before you determine what's nonsense.  We only have this one life, seize it.  Wrestle with it.  Start asking the big questions.  

but carrying on to the disconnection issue...

WHY IT'S NOT TRUE:

It's not true within religion. I can vouch for this myself.  Being a christian for 13 years, and a pastor for 5, I was immersed in the 'body of Christ.'  It might be a sweeping generalization, but people within religion are strongly connected,  having bonds and brotherhood/sisterhood unique to them.  It is something beautiful, and divine.  I have shared tears and prayers with friends, where I knew God was in our midst.  I have felt connection in worship where I felt like our very presence was glowing.  There is unity within true believers of God, that I am convinced.

But the image hit a nerve for another reason.  

Where it can be true:

Sadly, religion has also caused disconnectedness.  Regardless where the fault lay, many individuals are growing animosity towards the religious.  And, if we look in all directions, can we blame them?  Wars fought, and lives have been ruined in it's name.  Condemnation, and persecution, not only done, but defended  over the years!  Great sins have been committed. That is a given.   Religion is a very powerful vessel for God, but when working within the human race it is naturally flawed.   Because we are flawed.  (Not God)

One source of disconnectedness comes unintentionally.   I apologize for the sweeping generalization, but the religious can tend to alienate themselves by creating their own cultures.  And for lots of different reason, hardly malicious.  It's human to bond to those who we share common beliefs and passions with.  (I crave like-minded people all the time!)   Yet, it does come with the cost of creating walls; walls that need not be formed.


The other struggle comes with religion's relationship with dogma/doctrine and it trumping all else. Christianity, in particular, has a reputation of scaring people away with 'hell fire and brimstone' theology.  People hear 'only one way' claims followed by scare tactics, and it doesn't sit well within them.   Should it?  Is that the intro speech God would make as the compelling reason to choose him?  And do we even know enough about such things, as the exact ramifications of judgement, to make such damning claims?   My personal opinion?  The interpretation of God's word should never reign supreme over His word itself.  Interpretation, when formed into doctrine, eliminates the chances of other explanations to scripture, while also limiting the possibility of  God showing himself in new ways.  The ten commandments were written on stone, not church doctrine.  Remember, we are fallible beings working with limited information here.  

Do we really want to solidify the details so rock solid?
 Do we really want to, ultimately, characterize God in a light that seems unfitting to so many?

God is inclusive.  He is Holy, He is Just, and His Love reigns supreme.    He is beckoning for our presence, longing for us to get our hearts right.  Our God is inclusive.  You bet your bananas on it.  But if we go to religion, knowing in our hearts who God is, and are presented doctrine/opinion that goes against our guts about His ways, where do we go?     Do we say, 'Next' and move on to the next church or religion?  Do we KEEP on making more denominations, more churches, more sets of beliefs?  Or, do we decide to change the framework?    Strip away the interpretation, the inserting of opinion alongside the word of God, and respect the the way the Spirit moves through it AND us.  If we differ on interpretation, so be it.  Can't we trust God to work it out?  If we approach it all with fruits of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self control), can't we trust that the Spirit of God can do the rest?  


 Perhaps a spiritual movement is on the way.  And maybe, we need not to get so frazzled over it.  Maybe we could just let God work in His mysterious ways, through faiths of all kind.  To keep all things sacred, like my love of Jesus, and yet not be nailed  to any doctrine that contradicts the character of God;  to respect the Spirit of God, in us and scripture, knowing that both could be fallible and yet both could be sacred truth.    

Or, maybe I'm just a dreamer.
 But, I know I'm not the only one.



Namasté





6 comments:

Unknown said...

No religion teaches to fight with the person who Differs to you.
it's us we humans who can't tolerate differences.. I challenge the person who made this picture, to quote any Holy person or any Holy Book where it's written that if any person who Differ to you, fight with him..

Unknown said...

Oh C'mon!
People they have thousands of reasons to fight..

Have you not seen people fighting on Land, Gold and Woman.
You read about the American Civil war, Which religion and Holy Book asked those people to fight??

Total dead in American Civil war 625'000.
Total wounded 412'200..
AND still religion is bad in their mind..

Unknown said...

No, but it does teach how to condemn. And you're right Zahid, this is something we humans do that should only be done by God.

Unknown said...

But, what caused the American Civil War, and many other wars? Often, it is in the INTERPRETATION of scripture. People actually defended slavery and racism with biblical scripture! Because, by their determination, God deemed it OK. Craziness, but true.

Religion can be used as a wonderful platform to find God, and seek his truth. But, it has it's failings, as well. Wars, Inequality, unjust condemnation, corruption, and plenty more.

When we choose to seek God alone, and his ways, we are on the path to true freedom. When Christians tote 'It's a relationship, not a religion' they are spot on. It's about a relationship! It's NOT about us playing God and speaking on His behalf.

Jeff P. said...

I was brought up a Catholic, and 40-some years later am still semi-practicing. Meaning, I attend church regularly, but not every week. I believe that the difference is organized religion vs faith.

It is my opinion that the Catholic Church (the organized religion part) presents itself as an exclusive organization, as opposed to being an inclusive organization. It's done with rules that man created. Jesus broke bread with the biggest sinners of his time, the prositutes and tax collectors. All were welcome at His table. And yet the Catholic Church cannot find a way to include or welcome so many people. If you divorce and remarry, you can join us, but not for eucharist. If you are a homosexual, please find another place to worship. I use the specifics of my religion to make my points. But each religion or denomination has it's own "exclusivity" clauses.

I have hope, his name is Francis. Perhaps he can move the organization towards service of mankind rather than service to the Vatican. Perhaps he can create an organization that people are proud to be a part of as opposed to having to justify in the face of covered up priest scandals.
Perhaps they could spend the same amount of money helping the poor as they have spent on lawsuits over the last few years... perhaps.

But, until the organized religions find a way to be as inclusive as Jesus - all are welcome here - there will be the opinion / fact that organized religion does disconnect people.

Unknown said...

I couldn't agree more, Jeff. There is always reason to Hope, as long as there are individuals holding on to it (hope).

I believe Francis is a 'man after God's own heart,' and look forward to changes ahead. Thanks for reading.